Taylor Swift - Shake It Off

Summer is here!

Summer is finally here!!!! :)

Loving the weather, besides the past 2 days that we're really GLOOMY...

But the rest of this week is going to be beautiful...

I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE California weather, I would not trade it for anything else...lol

I'm going to continue blogging about my wonderful summer!! :)

Holding Grudges

Today's lesson I've have learned holding grudges towards people is not always the best answer in life.

No matter how much that person makes you mad or upset. Never hold it against them.

Life is to short for the attitudes, not talking to one another, making mean faces to one another, or just not talking in general.

Be the bigger person, even if that person does not accept it, just know you did apologize to try to make you guys relationship work.

Today I read an Bible verse that is the truth:

"Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, an God in Christ forgave you.

Ephesians 4:31-32

Insecurity

Today was all about INSECURITY

I don't understand why do females have so much of it. One the females do the most way far out things and they have insecurities about themselves.

How can you send nakey pics to dudes (who not with you) but be insecure?

How can you bottle up all your insecurities & try to say mean things to another person but have all these insecurities?

I want to know, how can you do A lot of things, but still be insecure.

God made us beautiful, I once was insecure about Almost everything. my weight, my hair, my skin color, my everything. People at school teased me A lot, about things and I just let them do it.

Just to see if they'll stop, but they never did. So what I did was start not caring and telling myself that I am good, and can be awesome.

Now that I am 23, I have learned EXTREMELY lots!!! I can never be like the rest...I am me!

INSECURE FREE

Taking Responsibility

Own it!!

I personally believe that people think that they have been owning responsibility. Which in reality you have not.

Step up, don't be afraid. Only you can help solve the real issue. I try my best to do good for my nephew.But I will always over do, our just simply do. He comes before anything in my life, I don't know where I'll be if he was not here...

The day he & I laid eye contact, I knew he was my responsibility. From when he was born until now (8) Nobody has been loyal or real or taking the time with him. I do everything with him,buy everything & still get DISCREDIT all the time.

But that bothers me none, I have learned to grow up & do it urself and leeet nobody tear you down, nooooooooooooooo matter how hard they try!!! Be who you are & take care of responsibility which is ur (8) year old son :)

fueled

Fighting with my so called "Dad" get's annoying at times!! He thinks he is right all the time...

Today we fought about my little nephew meeting his so called "grandma". It really bothers me because he is 8 years old, and I really think he is to young. His "grandma" is only meeting him because she is having A wedding in CALIFORNIA, so you get where I am mad at.

Honestly, my dad is so touchy to this lady it's like she can do no wrong!! I'm really upset and bothered about tgis whole situation.

The only person that understand is Rachel and kendall...

So what do the others think....?

California Summer

I love summer!!! :) This Cali heat is just gorgeous, having bbq, chilling in the sun!!! :) what more can you ask for?